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The Science Behind Feeling Thankful This Thanksgiving

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Thanksgiving is the season of gratitude—a time to reflect on what we’re thankful for. But did you know that practicing gratitude is more than a feel-good tradition? Scientific research shows that being thankful can have profound effects on your mental and physical health.

How Gratitude Impacts Your Health

Gratitude isn’t just an emotion; it’s a practice that can significantly benefit your overall well-being. According to UCLA Health, regularly practicing gratitude has several health benefits including:

  • Mental Health Boost: Reduced symptoms of depression and anxiety. Gratitude activates the brain’s reward system, releasing dopamine and serotonin—two chemicals associated with happiness.
  • Improved Sleep: Studies show that gratitude can improve sleep quality, as reflecting on positive aspects of life reduces stress and promotes relaxation.
  • Heart Health: Gratitude has been associated with lower blood pressure and improved heart rate levels, both key indicators of cardiovascular health.
  • Stronger Immune System: Positive emotions like gratitude have been shown to boost the immune system, making you less prone to becoming sick.

Tips for a Grateful Thanksgiving

Here are simple ways to incorporate gratitude into your Thanksgiving celebrations and beyond:

  1. Gratitude Journaling: Encourage your family to write down three things they’re thankful for before dinner.
  2. Mindful Eating: Focus on the flavors, textures, and smells of your Thanksgiving meal.
  3. Thankful Walks: Take a family stroll after your meal and share what you’re grateful for—this is also a great way to aid digestion and get some light exercise.
  4. Volunteer Together: Helping others can promote feelings of gratitude and strengthen family bonds. Consider volunteering at a food bank or donating to a local charity this holiday season.

A Grateful Mindset for a Healthier You

This Thanksgiving, take a moment to pause and practice gratitude—not just for your loved ones but for your own health. A grateful mindset can lead to a healthier, happier life.

For more tips on staying healthy during the holiday season, schedule an appointment with your NOAH provider today.

Giving Thanks at the Table

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By Kristina Ward, MAS-MFT, LMFT | NOAH Marriage & Family Therapist

Family life is usually busy: with mornings consisting of getting kids moving and out the door, sometimes even fed, and afternoons that include sports, homework, and general catch up. Family meal times have frequently become an occasional activity, just for the days of the month that aren’t horribly hectic and on the run. Between work, children, social media, and other activities, family meal time is often a chore to be avoided. But, the benefits of a regular family meal time is measurable. Studies have shown that regular family meal time together improves the overall outcome of relationships.

In couples with no children, be they pre, post, or no children, regular meals together reduce the levels of conflict within the relationship. Couples are more frequently able to resolve, come to a compromise, or even agree to disagree. The couple increases the level of friendship and companionship during the time spent together. In families with young children, the meal time together has the same protective factor in the couple relationship and improves the overall relationships at the meal allowing for increased conversation and interaction. As parents model communication and interaction, these young children improve in the ability to listen and respond.  Additionally, the conversation at family meals leads to developmental changes in the children. Regular conversation, including and around, young children helps to develop the child’s vocabulary. In families with older children, family meal time is a time to learn the family culture and develop a sense of “who I am” as part of the family system. 

Family meal time has protective factors on the mental health of the family members as well. Allowing children to express his or her thoughts in an opportunity for self-esteem to improve, improve school-related activities, and for the child-parent bond to increase, which in turn decreases the risk of early sex in pre-teen and teenage relationships. Another protective factor observed in regular family meals is the reduction in patterned disordered eating (which can lead to eating disorders), reduce the risk of substance abuse, and an improvement in health. Additionally, multiple studies from Europe to Japan to the US have shown regular family meals decreases depression in all age groups. 

Family meals do not need to be every day or every dinner. Family meals can be breakfast together on Saturday mornings, Friday night pizza, or Sunday brunch. Scheduling the regular meal times and the family expectation that everyone will be there is the important factor. If the kids have late start on Wednesday mornings, schedule breakfast to be at 6:30am before parents have to leave for work. No time to cook, have cold cereal! Make meal times a social event. Couples can make the meal together, eat, and clean up together. Parents can take turns teaching the children how to cook and prepare meals. The goal is to increase the moments of regular togetherness.

Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.

Benjamin Franklin

Sharon M. Fruh, Jayne A. Fulkerson, Madhuri S. Mulekar, Lee Ann J. Kendrick, and Clista Clanton. (2011). The Surprising Benefits of the Family Meal. The Journal for Nurse Practitioners. January 2011, 7 (1) 12-22.

Megan E. Harrison, Mark L. Norris, Nicole Obeid, Maeghan Fu, Hannah Weinstangel, and Margaret Sampson. (2015). Systematic review of the effects of family meal frequency on psychosocial outcomes in youth. Canadian Family Physician. February 2015, 61 (2) e96-e106.

Celebrating Thanksgiving in 2020

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This year we have experienced many changes, from the way we celebrate birthdays and graduations, to elbow-bumps in place of handshakes. One of the more challenging differences of living through a pandemic, though, is going to be the holiday season, starting with celebrating Thanksgiving.

Typically, people travel to see family and friends, visit multiple homes on Thanksgiving and the days around it. Many people enjoy getting out with friends to local bars and restaurants. None of that, however, is safe in 2020 with COVID-19 increasing it’s hold on our communities and our health.

Celebrating Thanksgiving in 2020 may not be what we are all used to, but it can still be full of good food, friendly faces, and happy memories without risking anyone’s health and safety.

Tips for Thanksgiving 2020

  • Hold a Thanksgiving dinner just for your immediate family in your home.
  • Enjoy the beautiful Central Arizona weather and visit neighbors outdoors and with some distance between you.
  • Share your favorite recipes with friends and family, rather than making and bringing food to a big group Thanksgiving.
  • Delivering meals to isolated friends, family, or others in the community in a safe way.
  • Virtual Thanksgiving dinner with loved ones near or far.

Remember, that while health is critically important with COVID around, we also need to take care of our mental and emotional well-being. Seeing faces on screens and hearing voices over the phone doesn’t take the place of in-person holiday gatherings, but it is much better than not having that interaction at all. Relationships and seeing people you love – even on a screen that has grandma’s thumb covering it half the time – are so important.

Enjoy and embrace something new when you celebrate Thanksgiving, and remember to call, text, video chat, and safely visit (with masks or at a distance) with people you care about. If you need additional support from a counselor or community resources, reach out to the NOAH team for more information about services to support you and your family so you have a happy, healthy time celebrating Thanksgiving.